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Loneliness is the biggest problem people face. Where you are lonely in a relationship, it is time to get help or get out.
You have been taught to limit yourself, including your expectations of love. Remove the expectations, continuously set new and higher expectations of your relationship.
If you test the suitability of a vehicle for you, why would you not test the suitability of another person for a relationship with you? Relationships are meaningless, unless there is a matching of the hearts.
Kindness comes not only from the heart; it also comes from actions and behaviours. Imagine knowing the feelings of the heart and the actions and behaviours of another person before we decided to form a relationship with them!
There are three parties to a relationship: ‘you,’ ‘me’ and ‘we.’
It can be that 'you' and 'me' are fine, but one or both us are not committed enough to create the ‘we’.
A relationship should not be about unspoken needs.
A relationship should be about understanding each other’s needs and deciding whether you choose to meet them.